We can’t pour into others if we are neglecting ourselves.

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It’s easy to shut down when you feel drained and are pouring from an empty cup. When going through periods like that, it’s wise to recharge and come back wiser and stronger.

We can’t pour into others if we are neglecting ourselves. We can’t be there for others in their time of need if we don’t know how to be there for ourselves. 

We tend to take on many problems that aren’t our concern and pour into others who may never pour back into us, and we do this because of our big hearts. But maybe it’s time to reevaluate the entire situation before you deplete yourself completely.

We can’t help others, but we must use discernment when doing so. Many people will use your goodness against you. They will drain you completely without replenishing you. Therefore, it is wise to know who you are dealing with and how much you are willing to pour into someone.

I know I had a savior complex; I felt like it was my responsibility to save everyone I came into contact with. I wanted to fix their problems and be there for them. I didn’t see how draining that was until I needed them, and they were nowhere to be found. 

The reality is we can’t save everyone, and we need to be okay with that. Everyone we come across is not our problem for us to fix.